有16年烟龄的“艾艾”要戒烟很难。
中国西安秦岭野生动物园一只名叫“艾艾”的母猩猩16年前痛失原配“丈夫”之后，一度心情郁闷而染上烟瘾。
1997年，陪伴它7年的“后夫”又因病去世，加上一个孩子远“嫁”到沈阳，一个孩子不幸死去，使得“艾艾”在孤独和寂寞中变得烟瘾一天比一天大，随着年龄的增长，香烟使今年26岁的“艾艾”身体逐渐虚弱起来。
本月23日，动物园决定采取措施为“艾艾”戒烟，并希望广大市民推荐戒烟良方。
与此同时，动物园欲在全国范围内，为“艾艾”再“招婿”。
2005年9月1日星期四
丧偶吸烟16年 母猩猩要戒烟
中国西安秦岭野生动物园一只名叫“艾艾”的母猩猩16年前痛失原配“丈夫”之后，一度心情郁闷而染上烟瘾。
1997年，陪伴它7年的“后夫”又因病去世，加上一个孩子远“嫁”到沈阳，一个孩子不幸死去，使得“艾艾”在孤独和寂寞中变得烟瘾一天比一天大，随着年龄的增长，香烟使今年26岁的“艾艾”身体逐渐虚弱起来。
本月23日，动物园决定采取措施为“艾艾”戒烟，并希望广大市民推荐戒烟良方。
与此同时，动物园欲在全国范围内，为“艾艾”再“招婿”。
2005年7月20日星期三
2005年7月19日星期二
快乐离你很远吗？
决定一个人是否快乐是一种心态，你的内心决定你是快乐、积极，还是悲观、消极。其实，一个人要想打开自己人生的局面，必须要了解自己，战胜自己。要做到这点，必须靠积极的心态去生活，不能用消极的情绪度过每一天。
清晨，当你睁开眼睛时，你是否经常如此想过；人活着是一件多么美妙的事！又一个多么愉快的早晨！其实真正的快乐不是表面上的，而是一种自内心得感觉。你是因你的处境和你所做的事而感到深深的幸福。
这正是积极心态的关键所在。其实，万物早己存在，当你觉得心情舒畅时，你会情不自禁地表现出快乐的神情。同时会欣赏万物，心中的幸福会油然而生。好好对待自己的心灵，一个积极思考常会有意识地使自己保持心情愉快。你期待快乐，便会找到快乐。你寻找什么，便会发现什么。这是人生的基本法则。开始找寻快乐吧！你一定不会失望的。
P/S: 如果一个人不认为自己是快乐的，他就不可能快乐！
清晨，当你睁开眼睛时，你是否经常如此想过；人活着是一件多么美妙的事！又一个多么愉快的早晨！其实真正的快乐不是表面上的，而是一种自内心得感觉。你是因你的处境和你所做的事而感到深深的幸福。
这正是积极心态的关键所在。其实，万物早己存在，当你觉得心情舒畅时，你会情不自禁地表现出快乐的神情。同时会欣赏万物，心中的幸福会油然而生。好好对待自己的心灵，一个积极思考常会有意识地使自己保持心情愉快。你期待快乐，便会找到快乐。你寻找什么，便会发现什么。这是人生的基本法则。开始找寻快乐吧！你一定不会失望的。
P/S: 如果一个人不认为自己是快乐的，他就不可能快乐！
2005年7月17日星期日
2005年7月16日星期六
世上真有绝对的公平吗？
在我们这个世界上，许多多的人都认为公平合理是人际关系应有的现象。我们经常听人说：“这不公平！”或者“因为我没有那样做，你也没有权力那样做。”我们整天要求公平合理，每当发现公平不存在时，心里便不高兴。应当说，要求公平并不是错误的心理，但是，如果因为不能获得公平，就产生一种消极的情绪。
实际上绝对的公平是不存在，这世界不是根据公平的原则而创造的。如鸟吃虫，对虫来说是不公平的；青蛙吃蚊子，对蚊子来说是不公平的等等。。。。。，只要看看大自然就可以明白，这世界并没有公平。
我们在生活中受到要求公平的心理影响，当公平没有出现时，我们会感到愤怒、忧郁。但是，过去不曾有过绝对的公平合理，今后也不会有。不公平是常有的事，但是你可以运用自己的智慧与不公平进行挑战，进而避免使你陷入僵化，避免造成你的自毁心理。
要求平等的行为在我们的生活中处处可见，无论是在自己或别人身上都不断出现。如，总是希望别人对待你的方式应该跟你对待别人的方式相同。别人对你有些好处时，你就想立刻报答他。如果你情我吃饭，我就欠了你的人情。这情形一般被认为是懂得待人处事，其实，这表明你希望公平的对待。对自己所熟悉的人或自己做同样的工作的人产生抱怨心理，认为他们赚的钱比自己多，这太不公平了。各方面条件与你相差不多的人得到提升或重用，你却守着原来的位子没有动，于是认为这太不公平了。
对于事情总是坚持一致性。实际上，这是一种不宽容的反映。如果你总是希望事事都依照正当的方式进行，那么，你的这种心理便是“心胸狭窄”的表现。生活在充满竞争的时代，当他人超越你的时候，你便从心内感到自己受了冷落，受了不公平的对待。
这对一切都要求公平，这会使你失去许多于人交往的机会。也许经常抱怨对方“：这不公平！”然而这句话，既然你认为自己受到不公平的对待，一定是把自己与别人相比；认为是用别人的情形来判定你自己，让别人支配你的情绪，是别人造成了你的不悦，这便意味你把自己的控制权、支配权、人格统统交给了别人？
对于人们来说，要求公平是把注意力在外界，是不肯对自己生活负责的态度。这种态度会妨碍你的选择。你应该决定自己的选择，不要顾忌别人。你不如积极地纠正自己的观点，把注意力由外界转向自身，舍去“他能那么做，我为什么不能跟他一样”的愚蠢想法，这才是你创造成功人生的可行之路
实际上绝对的公平是不存在，这世界不是根据公平的原则而创造的。如鸟吃虫，对虫来说是不公平的；青蛙吃蚊子，对蚊子来说是不公平的等等。。。。。，只要看看大自然就可以明白，这世界并没有公平。
我们在生活中受到要求公平的心理影响，当公平没有出现时，我们会感到愤怒、忧郁。但是，过去不曾有过绝对的公平合理，今后也不会有。不公平是常有的事，但是你可以运用自己的智慧与不公平进行挑战，进而避免使你陷入僵化，避免造成你的自毁心理。
要求平等的行为在我们的生活中处处可见，无论是在自己或别人身上都不断出现。如，总是希望别人对待你的方式应该跟你对待别人的方式相同。别人对你有些好处时，你就想立刻报答他。如果你情我吃饭，我就欠了你的人情。这情形一般被认为是懂得待人处事，其实，这表明你希望公平的对待。对自己所熟悉的人或自己做同样的工作的人产生抱怨心理，认为他们赚的钱比自己多，这太不公平了。各方面条件与你相差不多的人得到提升或重用，你却守着原来的位子没有动，于是认为这太不公平了。
对于事情总是坚持一致性。实际上，这是一种不宽容的反映。如果你总是希望事事都依照正当的方式进行，那么，你的这种心理便是“心胸狭窄”的表现。生活在充满竞争的时代，当他人超越你的时候，你便从心内感到自己受了冷落，受了不公平的对待。
这对一切都要求公平，这会使你失去许多于人交往的机会。也许经常抱怨对方“：这不公平！”然而这句话，既然你认为自己受到不公平的对待，一定是把自己与别人相比；认为是用别人的情形来判定你自己，让别人支配你的情绪，是别人造成了你的不悦，这便意味你把自己的控制权、支配权、人格统统交给了别人？
对于人们来说，要求公平是把注意力在外界，是不肯对自己生活负责的态度。这种态度会妨碍你的选择。你应该决定自己的选择，不要顾忌别人。你不如积极地纠正自己的观点，把注意力由外界转向自身，舍去“他能那么做，我为什么不能跟他一样”的愚蠢想法，这才是你创造成功人生的可行之路
2005年7月15日星期五
2005年7月13日星期三
2005年7月12日星期二
Love and Relationship
Learn to love the people who are with you at present. Forget the people in the past and thank them for hurting you, which led you to love the people you have right now.
When you love someone, you'll do crazy things you can't explain, you'll deny the truth and believe in lies. When you love someone, you sacrifice, give everything you've got and don't think twice. You risk it all no matter what.
Everything in life is temporary because everything changes. That is why it takes courage to love, knowing it might end anytime...having faith will make it last.
Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh and cry when you cry. They are the ones who make you laugh and stop you from crying.
Love is the feeling we fall in and out of, and every time we fall off, we learn to hold on tighter...hoping that next time, we may never have to let go.
They say when love knocks at your door, open it. But do you know that sometimes love enters through the back door and before you begin to notice it, it's on it's way out.
Have you ever loved only to let it go? Have you ever hated someone and loved him so? Have you ever missed someone so bad it made you cry? Have you ever seen someone left alone without knowing why?
True: Good is the man who wins the first love of a woman but best is the woman who wins the last love of a man.
Love is not the right word to say when you feel guilty nor the right word to say when you like a person but love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds, and our hearts...
Life has a way of changing things but not the joy that friendship brings, for friendship is like the shining moon, makes each night a brighter one.
Love is not for beauty or color of the skin, but for a heart that is loyal within, for beauty fades and the skin would grow old but a heart that is loyal will never turn cold.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain; so easy to get, so hard to let go; so easy to spell, so hard to define...and yet everyone is still taking the risk. That's love!
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!
ever be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pain, but if you don't follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.
Don't run ahead of God. Let Him direct your steps. He has plans and He has His time. God's clock is never one minute early nor one minute late. It always strikes right on time.
If someone loves you, love them back not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you have never seen or felt without them.
The past is meant to be used as a tool for the future.
Bad experiences indeed make you bitter but the lessons learned should make you better.
On letting go: it hurts to see someone you love happy with somebody else; but wouldn't it hurt you more to see that person unhappy...with you?
When you find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, lips that will kiss you in both instances, and a heart that will love you at your worst, then you have found true love.
Someday, someone might come into your life and love you in a way you always wanted. If your someday was yesterday, LEARN; if your someday is tomorrow, HOPE; if your someday is today, CHERISHLet go of the hand of the person you love, but don't let go of God's hand. For when you hold on to His hand, He may be holding you forever!!
When you love someone, you'll do crazy things you can't explain, you'll deny the truth and believe in lies. When you love someone, you sacrifice, give everything you've got and don't think twice. You risk it all no matter what.
Everything in life is temporary because everything changes. That is why it takes courage to love, knowing it might end anytime...having faith will make it last.
Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh and cry when you cry. They are the ones who make you laugh and stop you from crying.
Love is the feeling we fall in and out of, and every time we fall off, we learn to hold on tighter...hoping that next time, we may never have to let go.
They say when love knocks at your door, open it. But do you know that sometimes love enters through the back door and before you begin to notice it, it's on it's way out.
Have you ever loved only to let it go? Have you ever hated someone and loved him so? Have you ever missed someone so bad it made you cry? Have you ever seen someone left alone without knowing why?
True: Good is the man who wins the first love of a woman but best is the woman who wins the last love of a man.
Love is not the right word to say when you feel guilty nor the right word to say when you like a person but love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds, and our hearts...
Life has a way of changing things but not the joy that friendship brings, for friendship is like the shining moon, makes each night a brighter one.
Love is not for beauty or color of the skin, but for a heart that is loyal within, for beauty fades and the skin would grow old but a heart that is loyal will never turn cold.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain; so easy to get, so hard to let go; so easy to spell, so hard to define...and yet everyone is still taking the risk. That's love!
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!
ever be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pain, but if you don't follow your heart; in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.
Don't run ahead of God. Let Him direct your steps. He has plans and He has His time. God's clock is never one minute early nor one minute late. It always strikes right on time.
If someone loves you, love them back not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you have never seen or felt without them.
The past is meant to be used as a tool for the future.
Bad experiences indeed make you bitter but the lessons learned should make you better.
On letting go: it hurts to see someone you love happy with somebody else; but wouldn't it hurt you more to see that person unhappy...with you?
When you find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, lips that will kiss you in both instances, and a heart that will love you at your worst, then you have found true love.
Someday, someone might come into your life and love you in a way you always wanted. If your someday was yesterday, LEARN; if your someday is tomorrow, HOPE; if your someday is today, CHERISHLet go of the hand of the person you love, but don't let go of God's hand. For when you hold on to His hand, He may be holding you forever!!
2005年7月8日星期五
2005年7月7日星期四
Treat ur gf right!!
This is really sad. If you have problemsin yourrelationships, try and fix them. Dont pretend itsokay. Dont push your girls away, they areeverything to you. Maybe the best thing for you.Listen to them, Treat them like princesses, go outof your way once and a while for them, take careof them when they are sad, and dont let go.
Girl: hey baby i want to show you....
Boy: ( cutting her off ) ugh i'm so mad
Girl: why? whats wrong ?
Boy: ugh everything
Girl: explain baby
Boy: just lost a championship game,parents flipped out on me for no reason,and im catching a cold
Girl: well hey there will always be other games,you know ill take care of you when your sick,what your parents flip about ?
Boy: they are making me pay them for a car repair
Girl: is it alot of money
Boy: no it just sucks
Boy: but hey i dont feel well im going to go laydown
Boy: bye
Girl: wait i want to give you some...
Boy: cant it wait til tommorow ?
Girl: yeah sure
Girl: bye
Boy: bye
2 hours later a friend of hers asks her to go fora drive ...she goes.....
her friend swerved to avoid a truck....hitting atree instead
her friend was killed instantly....shes incritical condition
This is the conversation between her sister andher boyfriend
Sister: omg ( crying )
Boy: what? whats wrong ?
Sister: my sister...your gf was involved in amajor car wreck
Boy: is she ok ? ?????
Sister: shes in critical condition
Boy: i'll be there in 10 minutes
He shows up to the hospital room ...standingoutside the door going over the last conversation in his mind overand over as he heard the machines beep and beep and breathingtubes pump
Boy: she wanted to give me something or tell me something
Girls mom: yeah this...
it was an envelope smelling like she did sealedwith a kiss in lipstick
he opened it.....
it said ..... your everything to me....i love youwith everything i amand everything i have...i want to spend the restof my life with you
sealed in it was a ripped movie ticket from thefirst movie they went to
and the first picture they took together
he kissed the picture as a tear fell from his faceonto the picture
it looked as if in the picture she was crying
then the machines flatlined....3 minutes later shewas pronounced dead
If you have any heart...any soul...or want to behappy you will repost this. if you care for someone ...do not let somethinglike this ever happen
Post this in the next 200 seconds and you WILLhave THE best
day of your life THIS SATURDAY.
Girl: hey baby i want to show you....
Boy: ( cutting her off ) ugh i'm so mad
Girl: why? whats wrong ?
Boy: ugh everything
Girl: explain baby
Boy: just lost a championship game,parents flipped out on me for no reason,and im catching a cold
Girl: well hey there will always be other games,you know ill take care of you when your sick,what your parents flip about ?
Boy: they are making me pay them for a car repair
Girl: is it alot of money
Boy: no it just sucks
Boy: but hey i dont feel well im going to go laydown
Boy: bye
Girl: wait i want to give you some...
Boy: cant it wait til tommorow ?
Girl: yeah sure
Girl: bye
Boy: bye
2 hours later a friend of hers asks her to go fora drive ...she goes.....
her friend swerved to avoid a truck....hitting atree instead
her friend was killed instantly....shes incritical condition
This is the conversation between her sister andher boyfriend
Sister: omg ( crying )
Boy: what? whats wrong ?
Sister: my sister...your gf was involved in amajor car wreck
Boy: is she ok ? ?????
Sister: shes in critical condition
Boy: i'll be there in 10 minutes
He shows up to the hospital room ...standingoutside the door going over the last conversation in his mind overand over as he heard the machines beep and beep and breathingtubes pump
Boy: she wanted to give me something or tell me something
Girls mom: yeah this...
it was an envelope smelling like she did sealedwith a kiss in lipstick
he opened it.....
it said ..... your everything to me....i love youwith everything i amand everything i have...i want to spend the restof my life with you
sealed in it was a ripped movie ticket from thefirst movie they went to
and the first picture they took together
he kissed the picture as a tear fell from his faceonto the picture
it looked as if in the picture she was crying
then the machines flatlined....3 minutes later shewas pronounced dead
If you have any heart...any soul...or want to behappy you will repost this. if you care for someone ...do not let somethinglike this ever happen
Post this in the next 200 seconds and you WILLhave THE best
day of your life THIS SATURDAY.
2005年7月3日星期日
Missing you..badly!
Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think tat he/she doesn't miss u?
Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.
Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.
Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.
Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs.
Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u wen out together.
Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, lans, future.
Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online. When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.
Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.
But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.
At the same time, ask if they miss u. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.. :)
Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her.
Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.
Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.
Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs.
Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her missing the final episode of your favourite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u wen out together.
Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, lans, future.
Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online. When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.
Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.
Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.
But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know.
At the same time, ask if they miss u. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.. :)
2005年7月1日星期五
Signs of falling in LOVE~
10. You'll walk really really really slow while you're with him/her...
9. You'll feel so shy whenever you're with him/her...
8. While thinking bout him/her...your heart will beat faster and faster...
7. By listening his/her voice..you'll be smilling by your-self...
6. While looking at him/her..you cant see the other ppl around you...you can only see that person...
5. You'll start listening 2 love songs.
4. You'll really really like love songs...
3. You'll get high just by his/her smell...
2. You'll realise dat you're alwayz smilling to your-self..
1. You'll do anything for him/her........
2005年6月28日星期二
2005年6月26日星期日
1st time start my journey
yoyo....start my engine Now! haha.... i already sign up my new accout for blogger here! actually i'm not sign up. but my brother Victor Lee call me sign up then i going to register it! hehehe.... ok so happy and very tired! Hi Everybody.......
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